Articles on Guilt/Shame
for Widowers

This is the second of two articles on topics often seen as taboo. Failing to confront important topics only makes...

Most widowers, even the more extroverted of us, tend to shy away from discussing topics that seem too personal, too...

During our early stages of discombobulated, slightly psychotic, and often delusional widower behavior, we may find ourselves reacting inappropriately in...

This is the first of two blogs on this topic. Part Two will deal with solutions to each of the...

On the evening of June 29, 2015, I began a journey for which I was ill-prepared. After holding my wife...

When our wives die, we often lose the one person who loved us: All of these “failings” may lead us...

A few days ago, I received word that an old friend of mine, whom I have known for over 15...

Guilt and anger are recognized characteristics of the grief journey – Guilt over what could have been done or should...

Whether quoting from Wayne’s World or the Bible, the phrase “I am not worthy” may describe how we feel at...